Love In War with Esther Perel: Ukraine. In this session we meet a couple torn apart by the war in Ukraine. Young sons divided between a mother who leaves for th…

The Language of Gender: Beyond Boy and Girl. Esther Perel. Today, Esther covers the importance of language in our experience of gender.…

Language shapes our lives before we even know how to speak it. Verbs such as “to begin,” “to grow,” and “to be” describe our entry into this world.…

As a person that speaks nine languages, I’ve learned how important it is to practice the basic verbs (of a new language).…

That’s because. touch itself is a language, our first one. , and it’s comprised of an intimate vocabulary that includes pain and pleasure.…

As Octavio Paz has implied, eroticism is the poetry of the body the way that poetry is the eroticism of language.…

What is the language of it? In which situations did you feel you needed to make a resolution? Why?…

Does her language here impact you in an emotional way? If it does—why?…

How does this language shift feel for you? Consider this perspective in your next relationship challenge.…

Language matters. How we label people and situations can mask more complex dynamics while also blocking change.…

An invitation into another’s community—to visit, to understand the language and norms, to be at ease as an observer—can be a powerful bridge between the emotional…

Attentiveness -- a communications skill that can be learned, like a foreign language. Abandonment smarts.…

Pay attention to your and your partner’s body language for underlying emotional clues.…

A shake of the head, an eye roll, a slight cringe, a short sigh—body language matters in a conversation.…

Blame and defense comprise the language of power and control.…

—shift your language to: “I want you. I enjoy that feeling of wanting you.”…

us question our sanity and relationship, but allowing these categories to function as a framework for identifying where our conflicts are coming from inspires language…

It’s been said that we need fifty words in a foreign language in order to speak it. In the language of intimacy, basic fluency comes down to just seven verbs.…

Language of Gender. piece, the gender revolution has arrived. We have a whole new lexicon to choose from. And with it, freedom for self-expression.…

However, be careful of the language you use.…