What's the echo chamber between our family history and our fears at work? Childhood reverberates in the expectations and resources we bring to adult life with clients, coworkers and superiors.
Listening to the two hairdressers who bare their anxieties in Episode 8 of How’s Work? with Esther Perel makes it clear that hair isn’t the only thing that can end up on the salon floor: A stylist’s sense of self-esteem might also get snipped at the sharp edge of current professional and past family relationships.
For one of the participants in The Boss, the Client and the Hairdresser, the women who sit in her beauty chair are often stand-ins for her mercurial mother. She rarely thinks about them in their own right, but about how they’ll lift or diminish her, just like mom. Her colleague, who’s also her 12-step program sponsor, is recovering from the legacy of rejection, humiliation and jealousy from her own dismissive parents and a favored sibling. Both are ready for their emotional makeover with Esther.