Esther Perel’s approach to relationships, personalized for you
A guided learning journey that helps you turn insights into growth
A guided learning journey that helps you turn insights into growth
Cultivate more vibrant, playful possibilities.
Unblock desire and tap back into pleasure.
Reclaim intimacy, embrace risk, and build toward new depth.
Move beyond conflict, spark honest conversations, and learn to communicate your needs.
Based on Esther’s conversations with real people for 40+ years, in countries around the world.
Take a relational assessment quiz and get a personalized roadmap for growth in the areas you need it most. Then, start the work that feels closest to what you need right now.
Every collection is built around a topic Esther has worked on with real people for decades. Pick the one closest to what you’re navigating, and you’ll find questions, reflections, and guidance designed to move you forward.
Each question opens up a hands-on learning experience in a mix of formats — Esther’s teaching, then space to think about what it means for you.
Short, focused chapters where Esther teaches the frameworks she uses in the room with real people. Watch or listen — each one stands on its own.
Prompts that turn the lens inward—only for you, always private. Write your thoughts, notice your patterns, and track how your thinking shifts over time.
A quick check-in at the end of each segment captures where you are in your growth journey — and expands your Relational Intelligence (RI).
A resource that makes your growth visible. As you work through questions and check in on your progress, the platform tracks how your relational skills evolve and strengthen over time.
A digital learning companion that helps find the questions most vital to your relationship. Whether you’re just getting started or deciding what to work on next, the Guide coaches you on the next best steps.
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A dedicated space for therapists and clinicians to deepen their practice using Esther’s frameworks.
One plan. Everything included.
No. On Relationships with Esther Perel is an ongoing learning resource, not a replacement for professional therapy. The tool meets you at your questions, then coaches you through a personalized learning journey based on Esther’s approaches and experience in the field. Reflect, explore, and grow — at your own pace.
Each question is answered in chapters. Most chapters are roughly 5 minutes, but they're designed to be absorbed at your own pace.
The chapters consist of short audio and video segments featuring Esther that answer common relationship questions. These are all based on questions Esther has seen come up again and again in her work around the world. Chapters also include prompts and questions inviting you to reflect on a particular concern or topic. These “Reflections” and “Check-Ins” allow you to map your growth.
Completely. Your responses and reflections are private and encrypted. The guide uses them to personalise your experience, but they are never shared or visible to anyone else.
On Relationships is a great supplement to therapy. Many members use it alongside their sessions to deepen their understanding of the patterns they're working on.
