There is no one-size-fits-all solution to relationships. This course helps you understand your own unique history and develop a personal approach.
Taught by Esther Perel
Whether your pattern is to shut down, blow up, or avoid conflict altogether—this course is for you.
In a format that works
- High quality videos
- Reflection exercises
- Interactive Worksheets
- hard conversation catalysts
Course Curriculum
Conflict is a part of every relationship. There is a difference, however, between “constructive” fighting that is useful and “destructive” fighting that is problematic. We’ll learn the difference and the three main fighting styles.
Couples are often so focused on what they're fighting about, they fail to address what they're fighting for. In this Module, you'll identify which hidden dimension is causing your fights to escalate so you can zoom out and gain new perspective.
In this Module you'll learn strategies for de-escalating. You'll uncover you and your partners communication and conflict patterns, so you can choose new options.
Learn how to make a real apology that heals the wounds of conflict. These frameworks will help you live in harmony despite disagreements.
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Frequently asked questions
Your purchase of Turning Conflict Into Connection includes access for both you and your partner. We invite you to watch the videos together and share the log-in credentials, if necessary. We are not able to provide a separate log-in. If your partner requires access in a separate account, please have them purchase the course.
A relationship is made up of the people within it. When one of those people changes, the dynamic of the relationship changes. If your partner is unwilling or unable to join you in learning about how to turn conflict into connection, you will still benefit from learning this material on your own.
Turning Conflict Into Connection is a set of pre-recorded videos and a downloadable workbook from Esther. She will not be providing real-time therapy or feedback to course participants.
You'll receive about an hour of video and a robust workbook. Each module and its workbook exercises will take about an hour to work through.
You could plan to binge the course and work through the exercises as an intensive study for a date night. Or you can stretch it out. We recommend that you plan a time to watch each module and complete the accompanying workbook pages before moving on to the next module. Depending on the rhythm of your life and relationship, you might do this over the course of a week, a weekend, a month, or a season. Do what is best for you.
If you are completing the course with a partner, we recommend that you watch the videos together but work through the exercises individually. After you have both completed the exercises, you can meet to share your responses and have a conversation about your answers and your relationship.
While some of her other material touches on conflict, Turning Conflict Into Connection is a deep dive into conflict. Through video lessons and a downloadable workbook, you will explore the core definition of conflict, the ways conflict appears in your relationship, and how to fight in productive ways.