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Sessions Online Salon

Sessions is my online educational salon for professionals who work with couples or in the realm of intimate relationships. Each month, learn from the most innovative names in couples therapy and in issues related to intimate relationships and sexuality. 

My relationship has lost its spark. Is there anything I can do?

Rekindling Desire

Rekindling Desire is my comprehensive course based on the bestseller Mating in Captivity. I have channeled years of therapy, dialogue, and learning into creating a course that seeks to give you an insider's view into my approach. 

I would like to be among the first to read Esther's new book.

The State of Affairs

In The State of Affairs, I take a look at modern relationships through the lens of infidelity. Affairs have a lot to teach us about the human heart. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, I invite you into an honest exploration of coupling in all its many variations.

I would like to learn more about relationships, sex, and intimacy.

Mating in Captivity

My debut work on the intricacies behind modern relationships, and the dichotomy of domesticity and sexual desire. I published this book in 2006, and I am consistently grateful for the dialogue, exploration, and understanding that has followed. 

Free Resource: Your Intimacy Inventory

Let's talk about desire. My intimacy inventory is a free resource that will help you start important conversations about love and sexuality. 

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Why Modern Love is So Damn Hard

This week, I write to you about the expectations that can derail our relationships. Starting with the wedding vow.

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Podcasting an Affair: Episode One

My reflections on Episode One of Where Should We Begin, entitled "I've Had Better".

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Infidelity: Why I Wrote a Book About America's Most Controversial Topic

I knew that writing my new book The State of Affairs would be met with strong reactions on all sides. So why step into the fire?

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Order Exclusives

In The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, I take a look at modern relationships through the lens of infidelity. 

Order the book, and I'll send you sections of unpublished content that didn't make it into the final draft. 

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