Couples and Individuals

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Private Therapy

Esther has been running a private practice in New York City for over 32 years. At this time, she is not accepting new patients. As soon as her schedule allows, we will open this opportunity again on the website (Spring 2018). While she regretfully cannot provide direct guidance, we recommend exploring one or more of her many available resources below. If you'd like a referral near you, please email [email protected].


I am planning couples retreats for 2018. Dates, locations and itineraries announced soon. Be the first to know when registration opens by signing up for our newsletter at the bottom of this page. 

Rekindling Desire

An online workshop experience, designed to help individuals and couples connect to (or re-connect to) the erotic in your lives. Participate at your own pace. Learn more here.

Preorder Exclusives

In The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, I take a look at modern relationships through the lens of infidelity. 

Preorder the book, I will send you an advance copy of the Introduction, Chapter One, and unpublished sections that didn't make it into the final cut. 

Preorder Today!