Ms. Perel's work has appeared in leading publications such as The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, The New Yorker, Vogue, Le Monde, Ha’aretz, Stern, La Republica, The Guardian, The Observer and The Sydney Morning Herald; she also writes a popular column for the magazine Oh La La, published by the Argentine newspaper La Nación.
A french man speaks his mind about Love and Sex
One french man speaks his mind about Love and Sex and addresses himself to us on this side of the
Case study: Affair fills the space in a marriage
Christina met her first lover who affirmed her autonomy, her attractiveness, her life apart from her husband. The affair also
Emotional meanings of affairs
Our expectations and demands for exclusiveness which we see in marriage and monogamy are fixed in our earliest love relationship
The language of infidelity
Most of the words we use to describe infidelity connote moral disapproval, bad character, or sickness. Verbs such as cheating,
Is fidelity a virtue or a weakness?
Let me turn some ideas around. For some people sexual faithfulness is the easiest faithfulness to keep, but they betray
Is there such a thing as a bad marriage?
When people come to me in the aftermath of the discovery of an affair there is such a pull to
Are you an active participant in your sex life?
The passive partner’s thought process is: “I would like to make love with you, but I won’t tell you what
Future of Couples — Key Ingredients to a Happy Marriage
The promise that there is one person out there with whom a perfect life is possible if we can just
Tomorrow: Ask me your questions on Live Radio
I’ll be joining Marty Moss-Coane on Radio Times (WHYY-FM) in Philadelphia tomorrow (June 1, 2014) at 11am. We’ll be taking
Paradox of trust and secrets
A woman discovered her husband’s affair following the death of his mother and unleashed a kind of a rebelliousness against