In February 2015, I spoke about a challenging topic on the TED Talks stage in Vancouver.
Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. But does it have to be? In this talk, I examine why people cheat, and unpack why affairs are so traumatic: because they threaten our emotional security. In infidelity, we see something unexpected — an expression of longing and loss. A must-watch for anyone who has ever cheated or been cheated on, or who simply wants a new framework for understanding relationships.